Why do you think that Jesus responds to the first man the way that he does?
Why do you think that Jesus responds to the second man the way he does? Does his response seem cruel, or excessive, or unrealistic? Why or why not?
Why do you think that Jesus responds to the third man the way he does? What tendencies do you think that he is addressing in his heart?
What are some of the ways in which the Christian life has proven to be costly to you? And difficult to walk in? Why has it been difficult?
Do you find it difficult to prioritize Jesus over everything else in you life? What are some of the areas in your life that you find most challenging to give a back seat to following Jesus?
Do you ever find yourself looking back, and thinking about your former way of life, before becoming a Christian? Why or why not?