How might these proverbs speak to our relationships, and help us to relate to one another in a healthy way?

At first glance, this verse seems a little counterintuitive. (One might expect a friend to offer kisses, and an enemy to inflict wounds.) How can wounds (delivered by a friend) actually be helpful for us? How can profound kisses (coming from an enemy) actually be harmful to us?

It takes courage and boldness to speak truthfully into the lives of those around us - especially when it involves challenging, or offering constructive criticism, or confronting sin. How can we, as Christians, be intentional to serve one another in this way?

What does it look like to receive criticism from other Christians in a way that is healthy? How can we develop a posture of receptivity to hard truths from others (even when it is unpleasant)? How should we respond when we receive criticism that is misinformed, or harsh, or excessive?

How would you describe a person whose posture toward others is:


  • Lacking in both grace and truth?
  • Gracious, but lacking in truth?
  • Truthful, but lacking in grace?
  • Both gracious and truthful?
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